Opting Out, by Maia Kobabe & Swati “Lucky” Srikumar, (May 2026, Scholastic Graphix), $14.99, ISBN: 978-1-339-01224-7
Ages 10-12
Saachi approaches seventh grade with a lot of mixed feelings. In sixth grade, they were surrounded by a core group of friends and their best friend, Lyla, shared Saachi’s love of fantasy novels and imagination. But in seventh grade, Lyla finds a boyfriend and isn’t interested in spending as much time with Saachi. Saachi’s also not a fan of the changes in her body, either: breasts and bras? Periods? AUGH! Saachi doesn’t want to be a girl or a boy: they just want to be. Be a writer; be a friend, be a person that isn’t expected to date a boy or a girl. A conflict in school with their bully serves as a turning point for self-examination; Saachi also turns to her family, who are ready to support them. Saachi’s father in particular spends time listening to and encouraging them to create their own path. Saachi’s decision to “opt out” of the binary and its expectations sees and acknowledges the stress facing nonbinary teens: Saachi’s stress at having their first period hits like a gut punch; likewise, the emotions on their face when hearing their father correct a family member on a transgender person’s proper pronouns fills readers with warmth. Opting Out is a quietly powerful story for middle schoolers and high schoolers alike. Saachi and their family are Indian, and their culture and mythology are richly featured throughout the book. There’s a great callback panel to Kobabe’s Gender Queer featured and it beautifully communicates Saachi’s internal feelings.
Opting Out has a starred review from Publishers Weekly.
